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Milestone to 12-2-21

 1. FRI, 08-11-19 : This is where our story begins. It’s hard to forget how you introduced yourself to me. That was Friday afternoon when you were chat me on whatsapp. Mas said,

>Mbak mohon ijin saya ingin mengenal mbak. Nama saya exshan.

            >Saya naning. Mas, maaf emang harus pake ex ya? Hehe

>Iya itu sesuai KTP.

The first time, I knew someone with a name of EXshan. I thought you just made it looked cool, hehe, that was my first impression about you. How about you, mas? What did you think about me at the first time? J

 

Unfortunately, for some reasons I’ve changed my phone and I’ve lost those chatting. Hm.. L

 

2. SUN, 10-11-19 : This day was our first Kopdar. Ruang tamu is our historical place, indeed. I saw you for the first time in the living room. You wore white polo shirt, navy jacket, black trousers, and slippers. While I’m wearing baby blue blouse, brown scarf, and grey trousers. You looked at me and said.. assalamualaikum mbak, saya exshan.. temennya bu wid. You were talking a lot about your job. Actually, it’s so boring. Hehe but it’s okay mas, you’d better talking a lot than we both are silent. J

It is such a coincidence that mas Is family were in Pakal so he can meet you. Once you left home. We are talking about you mas. Alhamdulilah, they like you. What did you feel after we met, mas?


3. FRI, 6-3-20 : Short story.. we’re getting close chatting by whatsapp. Then you wanna propose me. To be honest, I told you to talk to my father.




4. SUN, 8-3-20 : mas exshan talked with bapak. Unfortunaly, ibu was staying in Jombang cz my lil’ sista has just been giving birth, sastra. Mas said he’s hard to sleep a whole night to think how to speak with bapak. J

Bapak can’t decide and should wait what ibu would say about it, so we wait..



5. SUN, 22-3-20 : mas exshan came to my house to give durian and this was our last meeting before pandemic covid-19.



6. SUN, 21-6-20 : I visited mas home for the first time, Jl. Kapt. Darmo Sugondo 14A, Kebomas, Gresik. The whole family gave a warm greeting and bu karmu directly asked me, mene lak sido karo exshan.. sampean nang nggone ibu kene ae yo nak.. keluarga sini minggu ngarep dolan ke pakal yo.

That was shocked me and make me think hard.. after long conversation with mas ex, finally we decide to stay in gresik after marriage.

 



7. SUN, 28-6-20 : mas exshan family visited my home for silaturahim. Also to deliver the intention of proposal day which would be planned on Sun, 2-8-20. Allah’s plan is soooo beautiful in the end. That was my birthday when you propped me as your wife.




8. SUN, 5-7-20 : we’re hunting batik couple at royal. Mas is an organized person. Everything should be planned well in advance. And I know that you are a perfectionist guy. I hope that it wouldn’t create any trouble in our future cz I’m not at your standard level, mas.. I tell you now. Be patient to me J



9. SUN, 2-8-20 : the proposal day. J I was so nerveous.. my fingers were trembling when bu karmu put the ring in my index finger which was absolutely not fit at all.. oh come on pak RT.. this’ so weird and unique thing I’ve ever known. Maybe, this was the tradition in gresik, I don’t know..

WILL YOU MARRY ME?






 

10. MON, 17-8-20 : mas exshan picked me up in Jombang, he went along my parents. Thanks mas! I appreciated it.



11. SAT, 5-9-20 : mas delivered the cats to Jombang and we also took salsa to her pondok pesantren. This was the first time mas staying in Jombang.



12. SUN, 13-9-20 : I visited mas home for the second time. Pak ran gave me mie ayam special. Thanks pak camer J and I brought salad buah yang failed made. Haha it was so embarrassing..


 

13. SAT, 19-9-20 : I made for the second time, salad buah and it was succeed. Mas likes it. Really??! Hm.. J



14. SUN, 4-10-20 : my family visited mas home for pengembalian lamaran. I was so nerveous till we got lost twice. Hehe luckly, mas antok was waiting us. Thanks mas!

The night after lamaran done, mas went shopping to find a long-sleeved shirt only for photo background biru. OMG! Again he acts that he is a perfectionist guy.. gemasss J



15. FRI, 12-2-20 : THE BIG DAY. You & I become US. J J J




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